I am not sure how many of you have came across this but I am sure there will be subsequent number of daughters who would have heard at least once in their life \u201cHow can we take daughter\u2019s money\u201d from their parents. My only question is why do they feel uncomfortable in taking their own daughter\u2019s money?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
So, I have been brought up in a pretty gender-neutralized family where you divide the chores, where you must be equipped or aware of all the household work so you can sustain on your own if ever you get to move out of home city. My reason for asking this particular question isn\u2019t that my income isn\u2019t taken seriously, or I am not regarded as mature individual whom they can depend on or who is regarded as some \u2018paraya dhan\u2019 who gotta save up for some matrimonial alliance – nope, none at all. I am not look down upon my job or stopped while making any decisions related to my financials either but\u2026. There is a big but here because if these are not the reasons then what are? Why it is only son\u2019s responsibility to provide for the living at their vulnerable age? It\u2019s not 19th or 20th century anymore. I so want parents to not feel burdened over taking or spending their daughter\u2019s money.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I know how parents are, if they wished they would keep sustaining themselves for as long as possible, keeping their head high but after a certain age I believe they should just relax and have a gaga time, the time they thoroughly expended on their children but they don\u2019t. They don\u2019t relax at all. And taking money from their daughter when no other option left isn\u2019t same either. It remotely feels like asking for help from an acquaintance as a last resort, when it shouldn\u2019t be \u2018asking for help\u2019 and more of a right. I believe this should be normalized too like so many other things going on. Whether we get married or not our parents must feel it\u2019s their right spending our money like we did while were growing up. If we needed something we always turned to them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
So, parents could you please stop shying around in spending ours, you own daughter\u2019s, money. We want to spoil you the same way you did. We acquired good education because of you. We are making good money, thanks to you but stop fussing around the right-hand side column of the menu. Don\u2019t feel pressurized thinking you don\u2019t want to buy this outfit because it\u2019s too expensive, because \u2018my daughter works too hard for it and I can\u2019t just waste her money\u2019 \u2013 No, please stop. We love to buy things for you, love to buy presents for you and not just as formality; we love to spend for household expenses too. That gives another sense of equality to us. We are capable enough of sharing responsibilities and mature enough to understand how it shouldn\u2019t be only son\u2019s duty.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dear Parents,
Hope you understand.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
And no mom, I wasn\u2019t arguing again \ud83d\ude41 \ud83d\ude1b<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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